If You Have Children, It’s Time for a Will

Becoming a parent changes everything. Suddenly, your world revolves around protecting and providing for your children—not just today, but well into the future. While most parents spend time planning for schools, activities, and family vacations, one of the most important plans often gets overlooked: an estate plan.

If you have children, having a will (and the right supporting documents) isn’t optional—it’s essential. Here’s why:

1. A Will Names a Guardian for Your Children

Your will is the legal tool that allows you to decide who will raise your children if something happens to you. Without a will, a court will make that decision for you—and the person chosen may not be who you would have picked. By naming a guardian, you ensure your children are cared for by someone you trust, someone who shares your values, and someone you know will provide them a loving home.

2. Custodian Designation: Keeping Kids Out of Foster Care in Emergencies

Imagine this: you’re in a car accident and unable to pick your child up from school or daycare. If no one is legally authorized to step in, even temporarily, your child could end up in foster care until the court sorts things out. A custodian designation (sometimes called a standby or temporary guardian designation) allows you to name trusted adults who can care for your children immediately in an emergency—avoiding unnecessary trauma and stress.

3. Medical Power of Attorney for Your Kids

Parents naturally make medical decisions for their children. But if you’re unavailable—say you’re traveling or in the hospital—someone else needs clear authority to step in. A medical power of attorney for minors lets you authorize a trusted friend or family member to make healthcare decisions for your children if you can’t. This ensures your child gets the care they need without delay.

4. Trusts: Protecting Your Child’s Inheritance

Most parents don’t want their 18-year-old to receive a large sum of money all at once. A trust allows you to set aside assets for your children and control how and when they receive those funds. For example, you might want the trust to pay for education, healthcare, or a first home, with larger distributions delayed until your child reaches a more mature age. Trusts protect your child’s inheritance from misuse, creditors, and even future divorces.

5. Instructions for the Guardian and Trustee

Beyond the legal documents, your estate plan can include a letter of wishes or instructions to your child’s guardian and trustee. This is your opportunity to share your values, parenting philosophies, and hopes for your children’s future. While not legally binding, these instructions provide invaluable guidance to the people stepping into your role.

Final Thoughts

No parent likes to think about the “what ifs,” but planning now is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. A well-thought-out estate plan ensures they are cared for, protected, and provided for—no matter what life brings.

If you have children and don’t yet have a will, now is the time. Your family’s future is too important to leave to chance.

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If You Have Children, It’s Time for a Will

Becoming a parent changes everything. Suddenly, your world revolves around protecting and providing for your children—not just today, but well into the future. While most parents spend time planning for schools, activities, and family vacations, one of the most important plans often gets overlooked: an estate plan.

If you have children, having a will (and the right supporting documents) isn’t optional—it’s essential. Here’s why:

1. A Will Names a Guardian for Your Children

Your will is the legal tool that allows you to decide who will raise your children if something happens to you. Without a will, a court will make that decision for you—and the person chosen may not be who you would have picked. By naming a guardian, you ensure your children are cared for by someone you trust, someone who shares your values, and someone you know will provide them a loving home.

2. Custodian Designation: Keeping Kids Out of Foster Care in Emergencies

Imagine this: you’re in a car accident and unable to pick your child up from school or daycare. If no one is legally authorized to step in, even temporarily, your child could end up in foster care until the court sorts things out. A custodian designation (sometimes called a standby or temporary guardian designation) allows you to name trusted adults who can care for your children immediately in an emergency—avoiding unnecessary trauma and stress.

3. Medical Power of Attorney for Your Kids

Parents naturally make medical decisions for their children. But if you’re unavailable—say you’re traveling or in the hospital—someone else needs clear authority to step in. A medical power of attorney for minors lets you authorize a trusted friend or family member to make healthcare decisions for your children if you can’t. This ensures your child gets the care they need without delay.

4. Trusts: Protecting Your Child’s Inheritance

Most parents don’t want their 18-year-old to receive a large sum of money all at once. A trust allows you to set aside assets for your children and control how and when they receive those funds. For example, you might want the trust to pay for education, healthcare, or a first home, with larger distributions delayed until your child reaches a more mature age. Trusts protect your child’s inheritance from misuse, creditors, and even future divorces.

5. Instructions for the Guardian and Trustee

Beyond the legal documents, your estate plan can include a letter of wishes or instructions to your child’s guardian and trustee. This is your opportunity to share your values, parenting philosophies, and hopes for your children’s future. While not legally binding, these instructions provide invaluable guidance to the people stepping into your role.

Final Thoughts

No parent likes to think about the “what ifs,” but planning now is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. A well-thought-out estate plan ensures they are cared for, protected, and provided for—no matter what life brings.

If you have children and don’t yet have a will, now is the time. Your family’s future is too important to leave to chance.

👉 At Provision Law Firm, we help parents create thoughtful, customized estate plans that provide peace of mind. Schedule a free consultation today and take the first step in protecting your children’s future.